Monday, August 15, 2005

good ways to start kino and look natural

Just read some posts on kino in mASF. Copy/pasting the best tips i found:

  • palmistry - ask her to show her hand ant tell something about her. for example at first tell her something good, then tell her that she'll be working in taco bell (wallmart) for the rest of her life. then tell her about a man in her life that she'll never forget and that she will be having a good time with him and that he is not easy to get as it may seem (of course faking that you are "indirectly" talking about yourself).
  • say to her: what a nice nails! and take her hand and fake that you are researching her nails. when ask: are they real? No? Well, they still look pretty (i think that one is from DYD).
  • If you're standing facing each other, as a punishment for her bad behavior, you may take your right hand and push her right elbow, all the way so that the both of you rotate and you end up standing in front of her, with your back facing her front. She'll usually grab you, jump on you, pinch you, etc.
  • Snoopy: You grab her hand, point out a "river" on her palm and say something along the lines of "Snoopy is on this side of the river, he has to get to the other side. How does he do it?", at the same time holding her hand (with the river) in yours, palm upward. If she gets that "um?" look, just reassure her and ask again.
    Now, whatever she says, you tell her that's wrong (no, the current's too big, he can't swim ; no, there's no boat ; no, he can't jump over ; etc). Finally she'll give up and go "okay, how does snoopy get across?". Your answer: "i don't know, i just wanted to hold your hand".
  • The possibilities are almost endless. If you already have some form of great kino/attraction/rapport going (let's coin a new acronym and call it KAR), you could even grab her close to you while sitting down or standing, as you were just about to kiss her and say (in a very slow, calm and relaxed voice, looking at her eyes the whole time) something like "you know, it's funny, for all the people around us it seems that we have known each other for such a long time...".. "yeah".. "if i were to hold you real close to me, everyone looking would just think we're a couple"... "yeah"... "if i were to touch you right here (move hand wherever - possibly on the neck), no one would care... ..., if i were to brush your hair, it would just be a natural thing to do... ...". If everything is going great here, go for DeAngelo's kiss test or just do it. And take it from there.
When i try these things I will write the responses of chicks. However, i think that if you do them cogruently and with a laid-back attitude then the responses will be very good.


By the way there's a good article by fluid on PUA and AFC differences in assumptions. Worth reading, check it out.

Sunday, August 14, 2005

things i need to improve

Things that I need to improve:

  • voice: practise to talk slower, in a deep voice
  • kino: use more often, become natural at it
  • leading: lead women into my reality, in my desirable direction
  • nlp: mirroring body language, using trance words, time-bridging/future-leading
  • #closing - use lines such as "hey, you seem to be a nice girl, we should meet again sometime"
  • qualifying: think of some good examples of qualifying a girl and use them
  • follow this structure of PU:
    1. open
    2. attract
    3. build rapport
    4. gain trust/comfort
    5. isolate
    6. close
Any good ideas how to improve these things?

Tuesday, August 09, 2005

First post

So. That's it. No more supplicating, no more being a nice-guy(or wussie) when trying to build attraction, no more one-itis, no more "she's too hot, she must have a boyfriend" and so on and so on.

To make a story short, about a month ago i found fastseduction.com and my view and attitude on many things has changed greatly. I saw a world in a new eyes. Of course, there were things about women that i found out by myself and was doing them naturaly. Yet as i read more and more i saw that there were a lot of things that i didn't know. And i understood one very important thing - PU is a skill. And skills can be learned. I knew from my expierence that it isn't that easy to learn some specific skill. However, i decided to give it a try.

So I am starting this blog to track my progress, store my observations and share my expierences with others.

Personal info about myself: i'm male, i'm 20 years old and live somewhere in Europe. According to FS scale i'm rAFC. And that's all you need to know by now.

By the way, English isn't my mother-tounge language, so if you find my writings hard to read then hire me a teacher or buy me a book on English grammar :)