good ways to start kino and look natural
Just read some posts on kino in mASF. Copy/pasting the best tips i found:
- palmistry - ask her to show her hand ant tell something about her. for example at first tell her something good, then tell her that she'll be working in taco bell (wallmart) for the rest of her life. then tell her about a man in her life that she'll never forget and that she will be having a good time with him and that he is not easy to get as it may seem (of course faking that you are "indirectly" talking about yourself).
- say to her: what a nice nails! and take her hand and fake that you are researching her nails. when ask: are they real? No? Well, they still look pretty (i think that one is from DYD).
- If you're standing facing each other, as a punishment for her bad behavior, you may take your right hand and push her right elbow, all the way so that the both of you rotate and you end up standing in front of her, with your back facing her front. She'll usually grab you, jump on you, pinch you, etc.
- Snoopy: You grab her hand, point out a "river" on her palm and say something along the lines of "Snoopy is on this side of the river, he has to get to the other side. How does he do it?", at the same time holding her hand (with the river) in yours, palm upward. If she gets that "um?" look, just reassure her and ask again.
Now, whatever she says, you tell her that's wrong (no, the current's too big, he can't swim ; no, there's no boat ; no, he can't jump over ; etc). Finally she'll give up and go "okay, how does snoopy get across?". Your answer: "i don't know, i just wanted to hold your hand". - The possibilities are almost endless. If you already have some form of great kino/attraction/rapport going (let's coin a new acronym and call it KAR), you could even grab her close to you while sitting down or standing, as you were just about to kiss her and say (in a very slow, calm and relaxed voice, looking at her eyes the whole time) something like "you know, it's funny, for all the people around us it seems that we have known each other for such a long time...".. "yeah".. "if i were to hold you real close to me, everyone looking would just think we're a couple"... "yeah"... "if i were to touch you right here (move hand wherever - possibly on the neck), no one would care... ..., if i were to brush your hair, it would just be a natural thing to do... ...". If everything is going great here, go for DeAngelo's kiss test or just do it. And take it from there.
By the way there's a good article by fluid on PUA and AFC differences in assumptions. Worth reading, check it out.
